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Direct and factual the ESTJ may inadvertently upset others who are more feeling as they see honesty and incredible directness as the same thing and so may at times project an honesty that is brutal.
Conflict is all part of getting things done and so the ESTJ will not let it affect them nor harbour ill feelings.
They do not really get the subtleties of nuance in communication and this desire for facts and clarity can mean the ESTJ can unknowingly upset people, simply by trying to ensure clarity.
Before a Relationship While ISTJs are generally well respected by their peers for their integrity and accomplishments in school or career, they tend to form intimate relationships relatively later in life.Once ISTJs decide to commit to a relationship, they will stick with it until the end.As a result, they make dedicated, faithful partners.The ESTJ doesn’t really get emotions or indeed anything they see as irrational and if someone is upset they will have to translate this into practical issues that they can then deal with factually and practically.ESTJs are extremely open and direct but they don’t really truly ‘get’ or understand emotions.